Earth woman, prepare to be probed!

I thought it would be pretty fun to talk about something really normal that everyone could relate on. And that is: Dating.

I would like to get your opinions on dating as well.

I don't personally date very often but of course when I do I don't usually have too much fun. I guess that's because my "dates" always seem to take the event a little too seriously. I don't know what too many girls look forward to on dates but I personally wouldn't mind not doing anything. We could just sit at home and talk, or go to a place where we can sit and talk. But personally I don't like it when you go "to the movies" or "out to dinner" those things have been done dozens of times and it's personally boring. In movies you can't talk to the person you're out on a date with and I don't like people I'm crushing on to see me eat so that's out. I understand that young people go to the movies for a date because it's easy and there are no awkward silences, plus they're probably hoping to make out in the theater. Hey I like kissing boy just as much as the next person with a sexual preference for boys would, but you can do that anywhere and you shouldn't be too embarrassed by something like that. Originally there wasn't even a concept of dating in humanity. You just picked a mate and created spawn from that, but now we don't need to have sex to have children. Anyone can grow their own fetus with the right amount of money. So where does dating come in today? People still date to ensure that they won't end up alone, but how we choose someone today to marry is very different from how we used to pick them. These day's you don't need to be married to have sex, which is something that a lot of people want in a relationship today. So why do people still get married? Again so they don't have to be alone. At the same time it's become a farce to get married when everyone plans these crazy extravagant weddings that take away some of the joy, that I assume comes with being married. The point that I'm trying to make and having issues doing so is that young people don't really think about dating too much and it's something they need to think about before they start doing it. They need to consider how much they like the person that they're "dating" and if they can like that person as much as that person likes them; if they think about this perhaps it could end bad relationships before they start. Also I don't see the point in expecting so much from a relationship right away when it's been so short a time. What do you think?


Still dating is something that everyone eventually does. What is you're perfect date? What annoys you about dating? or just give your opinion on the subject. With Valentines day next month these topics are bound to come up. Does valentines day make you sad?

:( I hope not <3